Asian Rhinoplasty

Question:

There seems to be a lot of bashing going on against white males with "Asiaphiles" in this website. While there is a lot of validity in that, how about the women?

Last Friday, I read through the personals in the LA Times to see how different ethnicities interact in terms of what they look for. There were 12 Asian females looking for mates. *All* 12 of them stated their racial preference "WM" (white male). In fact, 3 of them emphatically stated "WM ONLY". Even white females looking for white males did not use the word "ONLY."

I have no problem with interracial dating. However, when one *restricts* him/herself to dating *exclusively* outside his/her ethnic group, I just have to raise my eyebrows.

there are a lot of white male perverts with "Asiaphilia" (not all, of course), but we do have a fair share of Asian females who are more than willing to fulfill their appetites. Does anyone has the same ideas?
 

Answer:

i seen ads like that too, and i notice that almost unanimously, they belonged to asian women living/working in the west LA area, they are usually secretaries, store clerks, or professionals. their friends, colleagues, business associates are *all* caucasian. so imagine, if they didn't marry a caucasion man, and instead, married asian, or black, or hispanic, what would it be like for them to take their husbands to meetings, parties, and many other social occasions that are so important to their lives and careers...

actually, i am just giving you a *small* piece of the surface to the whole thing. but try to look at things at a different perspective. i never believe that "sexual attraction", as you guys keep emphasizing, is really the whole reason for asian women to "date out". i always believe that there are other reasons, reasons that are not so trivial, because it is a common knowledge that women are *not* very sexual

if you would see one of these "racist" women in person, you will be surprised to find the similarity: maybe brown hair, maybe very pale skin (it is very curious to me how they did it), maybe eyes that went through some type of "enhancement"... believe me, i seen some of them in those areas of LA

you know, probably in some sectors of this society, maybe the sectors that we never treaded upon, things are very different. things are much harder, things such as the most basic elements to the social survival of a person, ... like acceptance... and just to remind you, those are very,very big sectors of the society... There are AF who are like that (and even a few AM), and there are AF who are not. Pale skin is not uncommon in Asians. Blepharoplasty (eye surgery) is common among the wealthy sectors of Asian societies, as is rhinoplasty (nose surgery), although it is often not talked about openly. No wonder. Cultural domination is a powerful thing.

I agree with the need to understand the roots of structural obstacles. I disagree however that the phenomena are present only in a limited geographical/social strata. One needs only to observe that in Japan, a nation that is certainly over 99% Asian, over half the new commercials utilize Caucasian (or Eurasian) models. Compare that to the US...hmmm... Acceptance is paramount to psychological health. It's too bad that some people find it convenient not to apply this principle to members of the opposite sex in their own 'racial' and ethnic groups.

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