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Asian Rhinoplasty
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Question: There seems to be a lot of bashing going on against white males with
"Asiaphiles" in this website. While there is a lot of validity in
that, how about the women?
Last Friday, I read through the personals in the LA Times to see how
different ethnicities interact in terms of what they look for. There
were 12 Asian females looking for mates. *All* 12 of them stated their
racial preference "WM" (white male). In fact, 3 of them emphatically
stated "WM ONLY". Even white females looking for white males did not use
the word "ONLY."
I have no problem with interracial dating. However, when one *restricts*
him/herself to dating *exclusively* outside his/her ethnic group, I just
have to raise my eyebrows.
there are a lot of white male perverts with "Asiaphilia" (not all,
of course), but we do have a fair share of Asian females who are more
than willing to fulfill their appetites.
Does anyone has the same ideas?
Answer: i seen ads like that too, and i notice that almost unanimously, they belonged
to asian women living/working in the west LA area, they are usually secretaries,
store clerks, or professionals. their friends, colleagues, business associates
are *all* caucasian. so imagine, if they didn't marry a caucasion man, and
instead, married asian, or black, or hispanic, what would it be like for them
to take their husbands to meetings, parties, and many other social occasions
that are so important to their lives and careers...
actually, i am just giving you a *small* piece of the surface to the whole
thing. but try to look at things at a different perspective. i never believe
that "sexual attraction", as you guys keep emphasizing, is really the whole
reason for asian women to "date out". i always believe that there are other
reasons, reasons that are not so trivial, because it is a common knowledge
that women are *not* very sexual
if you would see one of these "racist" women in person, you will be
surprised to find the similarity: maybe brown hair, maybe very pale skin (it
is very curious to me how they did it), maybe eyes that went through some
type of "enhancement"... believe me, i seen some of them in those areas of LA
you know, probably in some sectors of this society, maybe the sectors that we
never treaded upon, things are very different. things are much harder, things
such as the most basic elements to the social survival of a person, ... like
acceptance... and just to remind you, those are very,very big sectors of the
society...
There are AF who are like that (and even a few AM), and there are AF who
are not. Pale skin is not uncommon in Asians. Blepharoplasty (eye
surgery) is common among the wealthy sectors of Asian societies, as is
rhinoplasty (nose surgery), although it is often not talked about openly.
No wonder. Cultural domination is a powerful thing.
I agree with the need to understand the roots of structural obstacles.
I disagree however that the phenomena are present only in a limited
geographical/social strata. One needs only to observe that in Japan, a
nation that is certainly over 99% Asian, over half the new commercials
utilize Caucasian (or Eurasian) models. Compare that to the US...hmmm...
Acceptance is paramount to psychological health. It's too bad that some
people find it convenient not to apply this principle to members of the
opposite sex in their own 'racial' and ethnic groups.
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